FINALLY!!

WELL, AFTER ALMOST A YEAR I FINALLY HAVE SOME DATES TO LOOK FORWARD TO.   I HAD A COURT DATE SET FOR AUGUST 28TH, BUT THERE WAS A CONTINUANCE FOR SOME REASON. I THINK IT WAS BECAUSE STACEY GOT A NEW LAWYER.   SO NOW THE DATES TO LOOK FORWARD TO ARE OCTOBER 23RD AND JANUARY 8TH.  ON OCTOBER 23RD WE HAVE A SETTLEMENT CONFERENCE WITH THE LAWYERS, A LOT OR NOTHING COULD GET SETTLED OUT OF THIS MEETING.  HOPEFULLY MOST OF THE THINGS WILL BUT I HAVE A FEELING THAT NOT MUCH WILL BECAUSE STACEY SEEMS TO STILL FEEL THAT SHE DESERVES ALL THE ADVANTAGES AND NONE OF THE DISADVANTAGES.  AND THEN ON JANUARY 8TH WE START OUR COURT HEARINGS.  I AM HOPING THAT WE CAN GET AN EARIER COURT DATE BEFORE THEN AS IT WILL HAVE BEEN WELL OVER A YEAR.  WITH SOME NEW EVIDENCE, IM HOPING THAT THINGS CAN GO KIND OF QUICKLY FOR THE CUSTODY PORTION, WHICH SHOULD BE THE MAIN TOPIC.  I DONT KNOW HOW MANY OR HOW LONG IT WILL BE BEFORE THE DIVORCE IS FINAL, BUT PRAYING THAT FOR ISABELLE'S AND MY SAKE IT IS SOON.  PLEASE PRAY FOR A FAIR JUDGE AND JUSTICE TO BE THE CASE. WE ALL LOVE ISABELLE AND PRAY THAT SHE HAS THE BEST OPPORTUNITY TO HAVE A LIFE THE IS GUIDED BY GOD AND A FAMILY THAT LOOKS FOR HER BEST INTERESTS.

P.S. FAMILY,  IT WAS GREAT TO SEE YOU ALL AND THANKS FOR YOUR HELP.

THANKS AGAIN,

JON

PATIENCE IS A VERTUE!!

PATIENCE IS A VERTUE!!

AT FIRST I WAS VERY FRUSTRATED THAT I WAS WAITING SO LONG TO GET A COURT DATE AND GET BACK TO COURT. 

THEN GOD SHOWED ME THAT I SHOULD BE PATIENT AND TRUST HIM.  I GAVE THIS STRUGGLE TO GOD AND REMEMBERED THE I NEED TO TRUST THAT IT IS HIS WILL AND HE HAS A REASON FOR IT. I CONTINUED TO PRAY. 

HE ANSWERED BIG!!!

ON FRIDAY I WENT TO THE GOVERNMENT CENTER TO FIND OUT WHAT WAS TAKING SO LONG WITH THE CHILD SUPPORT THAT I HAD FILED OVER 2 MONTHS AGO.  IT SHOULD BE COMING OUT OF MY CHECK BY NOW.  THEY WERE BAFFLED TO. AFTER A LITTLE RESEARCH THEY REALIZED THAT THE DELAY FOR THE SUPPORT AND THE COURT DATE WAS DUE TO THE FACT THAT STACEY'S LAWYER HAD NOT CHOSEN A JUDGE FROM THE PANEL.  HIS TIME WAS WAY PAST EXPIRED.  THEY TOLD ME THAT HE NO LONGER HAD THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE A JUDGE AND THAT IT WOULD MOST LIKELY DEFAULT TO THE JUDGE THAT MY LAWYER HAD CHOSEN.  THIS MEANS THAT IN A COUPLE OF WEEKS THE SUPPORT SHOULD START COMING OUT OF MY CHECK AUTOMATICALLY EVERY WEEK.  THEN SENT TO INDIANAPOLIS AND THEN MAILED TO STACEY.  THIS ALSO MEANS THAT WE SHOULD GET THE JUDGE OF OUR CHOICE AND THEN I SHOULD HAVE A COURT DATE SHORTLY.  THE JUDGE IS ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT THINGS IN THE CASE.  FOR OBVIOUS REASONS.

PRAISE THE LORD!!!!

JON

WEDDING RING!!

I HAVE FINALLY REMOVED MY WEDDING RING!!!!! I DO NOT WEAR IT ANYMORE AS OF THIS PAST SUNDAY!!!

AS I HAVE BEEN PRAYING FOR GOD TO RELEASE ME FROM MY COMMITMENT TO STACEY, HE ANSWERED QUICKLY.  SUNDAY AT CHURCH, THERE WAS A PART OF THE MESSAGE THAT LED ME TO BELIEVE THAT I AM NOT BOUND TO STACEY NOW.  I STILL FEEL LIKE I HAVE THE MARRIAGE COMMITMENT TO GOD BUT NOT STACEY. I DO NOT HAVE TO LOVE AND CHERISH HER, HONOR OR OBEY HER. I AM FREE FROM HER AND AM VERY HAPPY ABOUT IT. THANK GOD.  HE LISTENS AND THEN ANSWERS IF WE ARE LISTENING TO HIM.  MOST OF THE TIME HE DOES NOT ANSWER SO QUICKLY, BUT HE ANSWERS AT HIS OWN WILL.  AND THAT IS ENOUGH FOR ME.  NOW I CAN PRAYER FOR HIS HAND TO BE WORKING ON THE JUDGE AND LAWYERS FOR THE BEST LIFE FOR ISABELLE.  BEST CHRISTIAN LIFE FOR ISABELLE.

PLEASE PRAYER FOR ME AND MY DAILY STRUGGLES.  THIS HAS TAKEN A TOLL ON ME AND I WANT TO AND NEED TO STAY STRONG AND FOCUSED ON HIM.

THANKS FOR THE CONTINUED SUPPORT.

THE POTHOLE PRINCIPLE.

WHEN YOU CHOOSE TO GIV GOD YOUR OBEDIENCE EVEN WHEN THER IS NO EVIDENCE OF HIS BLESSING, GOD CHOOSES TO GIVE YOU THE ASSURANCE THAT HE IS ON YOUR JOURNEY.  

READ GENESIS 15:17-21

PRAYERS!!

PLEASE CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR US.  I ESPECIALLY WOULD LIKE TO ASK YOU ALL TO PRAY FOR GOD TO RELEASE ME FROM THIS MARRITAL COMMITTMENT.  I WANT TO BE FREE FROM MY MARRITAL VOWS.  I WANT TO BE REMOVED FROM ANY RLATIONS TO STACEY.  UNFORTUNATELY MOST LIKELY WE WILL SHARE OUR PARENTING FOR ISABELLE.  I AM UNSURE JUST WHEN STACEY BROKE HER VOWS, BUT I HAVE NOT. I HAVE BEEN SELABENT FOR OVER EIGHT MONTHS. STACEY LEFT THE MARRIAGE AND FILED FOR DIVORCE EIGHT MONTHS AGO.  AS A CHRISTIAN, WILL GOD RELEASE ME FROM MY COMMITTMENT TO MARRIAGE, DUE TO THE FACT THAT SHE HAS CLAIMED TO BE AN UNBELIEVER AND INSULTED MY RELIGION AND MORALS. PLEASE PRAY THAT HE RELEASES ME.  I ALSO ASK IF ANY OF YOU CAN FIND SCRIPTURE THAT SUPPORTS THAT GOD COULD RELEASE ME BEFORE THE FINAL LEGAL DIVORCE, I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR ABOUT IT.

THANKS

JON